About to loose my shit with these toddlers they won’t eat nothing stay up until 1 get up at 8 want…
About to loose my shit with these toddlers they won’t eat nothing stay up until 1 get up at 8 want chocolate milk I make it I want chocolate milk! It isssssss no.! I want chocolate milk omg no help what so ever running on 3 hours of sleep with the baby and his ass just lays there on his Facebook like wtf you already up move your ass and help me !!
Sevrina Perez·
He better get his ass up. Screw Facebook!!!! Get up and help!!!
Lydia Smith·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@sevrinanicole, he won’t it’s our 3 child together and he hasn’t helped not once my body is giving up
Sevrina Perez·
@lydia09876 that's friggin ridiculous. Of course your body is giving up. You're exhausted!! You need a break!!! And it sounds like he needs to get his ass whipped in shape. Men want to be father's but they don't want to do the job.
Victoria·
This is my hubby! I sometimes force him to take the baby for at least 30 mins sometimes but not often
Teelah ·
Мама четверых детей
Girl you need a break!! I’m going to come break you away one day leave all the kids with him and let him see how it is for you 😑
Lydia Smith·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@sevrinanicole, exactly I can’t do it anymore sometimes I think about just running away but I love my kids
Lydia Smith·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@mommy2be3, yeah he puts her straight down if I try to wash dishes he says I’m not holding she wants to be played with not lay around
Victoria·
@lydia09876 smh I'm not much better off. I've started having to get my son to help out some. He'll push her in her stroller while I wash dishes or get a quick shower. He's only 6 but he's awesome help. He'll get in the floor and play with her too
Lydia Smith·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@mommy2be3, well my oldest two live with their dad so I don’t have any help
Victoria·
@lydia09876 that really sucks. I don't know your situation but I was about to leave my hubby for a week, take my kids and scare the hell outta him a few weeks ago. He started doing a bit better before I did that tho, I guess all my talking finally got thru somewhere.
Lydia Smith·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@mommy2be3, I tell this man everyday I can’t do it anymore my body feels like imma gonna die or something like the flu weak and dizzy I think from no sleep I’ve lost a ton of weight because I don’t even get to eat most the time
Victoria·
@lydia09876 I think if you have somewhere you can go you should leave, take a break from the house, maybe somewhere someone will help with the kids? And scare him into realizing you're done being a single mom when he's right there. But that's just an opinion. I know I literally about broke 2 weeks ago, I put a freaking hole in a wall here so I wouldn't hit him! And I'm not like that at all. It scared and shocked me that my mentality had gotten that bad.
Lydia Smith·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@mommy2be3, yes just like this morning I was crying he said what’s wrong I said I can’t take this anymore to much on me I set in this house 7 days a week and all he had to say was pack your shit wtf
Victoria·
@lydia09876 I'm sorry. That's just awful of him. Sounds like maybe you should leave or start making a plan to. Like I said I don't know your situation but if my husband had said that to me when I kept telling him he needed to help more I would have done exactly that. I'd have got my shit right then and left. I've done it before with my son's dad.