So I’m going to vent a little🤷🏻 ♀ junior and I got into an argument today, literally all day he’s…
So I’m going to vent a little🤷🏻♀️ junior and I got into an argument today, literally all day he’s been pissing me off and finding it fucking hilarious.. well he had told me that basically Sense Ava’s a girl he won’t take care of her or help me with her BECAUSE SHES A GIRL.. like what???? But he said if we had a boy he would be the one taking care of him and changing all the diapers and doing the baths.. LOL NO THE FUCK HE WOULDN’T. I’m pissed off about it because literally WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK? Who says something like that? That’s your daughter dude! Just because she’s a girl doesn’t mean you can’t help me take care of YOUR DAUGHTER. He makes no fucking sense🙄 he expects me to do it all apparently.
Chanel Mior 🖤·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
I know someone who has a daughter and they won’t change her they let the mom do all of it i think because they not use to it idk my friend bd just will feed his daughter but when she need changing he brings her to the mom or have his mom change her.
Saybre Elizabeth ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@chanelmior, I think it should be 50/50. I didn’t make her by myself, and Ava’s not juniors first daughter, so it really gets to me when he acts like he doesn’t know what he’s doing.
Candace·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
@chanelmior yesss! I know (too many) guys who say the same with their own girls! It BLOWS MY MIND! But some people were just raised that way. Try not to get mad and try to really have a sit down calm talk with him. @sabreycastro1996,
Chanel Mior 🖤·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@candacelouise, yes ma’am like if the mom isn’t there he will literally call his mom but his son now he will change but his daughter he will call before he change her.
Maya 🐝·
That’s crazy cause my dad was the same way. That’s why we don’t have a close relationship because we never had a bond. It still makes no sense to me!
Candace·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)
@chanelmior it is CRAZY! One of the guys I know... his wife has literally never left the daughter for more than maybe 2 hours because as soon as she needs to be changed he calls and she drops everything and heads home!!!! 😱
cheyenne frazier·
My husband was a little weirded out at first to. It just felt weird to him wiping his daughter like that and I totally get it! I didn’t ask him to change her diapers he’d be with me and talk to her while I did it and then eventually he offered to do it. He still says it’s a little weird for him but he’s gotten better with it.
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Wow idk how you deal with that.. my husband and I have 2 kids together (boy&girl) and he has two others (boy&girl). He's always done everything for them, even the girls. I couldn't imagine a man saying he wouldn't help with his little girl.. my husband is wrapped around both his girls fingers lol
Jenn·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Funny i just went through the same thing well my husband didnt wanna change our sons diaper bc he is a boy. And thats gay. Smh. MEN ARE SO FUCKING STUPID SOMETIMES I SWEAR 😤