@preciouslove so true and I wish he would see that and stop trying to always make it about him.

@donnydayb some guys are never happy girl ur job of being a mom is 24/7 i tell my husband at least he gets a break from work we constantly have to take care of the kids and arent appreciated im getting tired of it:/

@preciouslove see I was working till I couldn't really walk anymore and I had to take care of my step daughter cause there wasn't anyone else that would do it. But once he was born and almost four months I went back to work and he got in his feelings about the job and make me leave that job and said for me to just travel with him till we get something better. And now he throws that in my face but I was what he and my mom wanted. And I had no one else to watch my son. So I have to take off.

@donnydayb im tryin to figure that oit myself:/ when im not pregnant i work too but only 2 or maybe 3 days a week so he says it doesn't really count. My job at home is 24/7!

@donnydayb have you talked to someone close to him about the problems

@motherof3boyz702 girl I really have tried everything and nothing seems to get though to his brain.

@donnydayb have you tried an ultimatum? Or maybe not doing anything, so he can see everything you do

@motherof3boyz702 thanks for helping me girl it means a lot.

@motherof3boyz702 yes I have and it got worse and then he tried to turn it on me like it was my felt and he made it out to be a fight in the end some how. But like a few minutes after he wants to act like none of it happened cause in his eyes I did everything and that i should forgive him. I'm so confused I just want to understand what am I doing wrong and what do I need to do.

@donnydayb hell no don't let him treat you guys like that either. . You guys are together and a family and shouldn't treat you like a burden... Have you had a serious talk about it?

@motherof3boyz702 see at first he was like I'll help but then he felt that since he has to work all the time every day I have to do everything and anything he needs and take care of a kid by myself and him just come and lay down get on his phone be bitchy and not pay neither of us attention cause he had to work and he had a bad week. And other things on his mind. And when I ask for help it's I'm sorry no I can't I got to do this and that and just leave us and act like we are just there to be walking over

I'm trying to get used to it honestly... I've worked or while relationship being together but I still cleaned and cooked but he mostly did everything when I worked. Now that he works I'm doing it all... NowHe cooks every weekend and as far as the kids I do have to remind him to pay attention to them