So its been 5 days since my mother passed, her and I have had our ups and downs but when it came down to it we loved eachother deeply. My mother was my world and i loved her very much. My BF has known my mom for a long time,he never really liked her. He was sweet to me for the first 2 days after her passing but now hes ignoring me,ignoring my cries,getting mad at me and on his computer all day. I dont know if im still in ahock or what. Im confused about how im feeling and i know im not feeling very cuddly or loving right now nor do i want to do adult stuff to make him happy (wich by the way is the only time hes nice to me for 2 days then back to ignoring me, even b4 my mom passed) i was his compadsion and undersranding. He lost his mother he knows about the grief but, this man feels no empathy im afraid idk what to do.
I'm so sorry for your loss mama. I pray you find comfort in the good memories you shared for your mom. It sucks that your boyfriend isn't giving you the kind of emotional support that you need right now. This is a very sensitive time for you so he needs to put aside whatever feelings he had toward your mother and be there for you. Have you tried expressing your feelings to him?