It took me awhile with my second child. I felt horrible too because it wasn't an instant bond. I love all my kids the same but the 2nd time around it took me awhile. I didn't think I could love another person as much as I loved my first child. I did. Still do. Just took a bit to get through the change of having 2 kids.

@jmilanes3 hmm well in any case, I'm feeling like a terrible mother 😢

@jmilanes3 it definitely wads not instant. I hate to compare because I know each child is different, but with my daughter it took about a couple of days. I didn't know I was pregnant with my son until I was about 4 months... with my daughter, I knew almost instantly. I had more time to get used to the idea of being someone's mom. Perhaps that's why?