My little one has surgery in 3 weeks. Im so stressed and trying to figure out who will be taking my…

My little one has surgery in 3 weeks. Im so stressed and trying to figure out who will be taking my kids is making it worse. For one my in-laws want to come but I don't trust them alone in my APARTMENT with our stuff. Two my aunt and mom offered to help but my hubby is getting mad because his family wants to come visit anyways. Plus his niece and nephew can't miss a lot of school and they will be spending a lot of money to drive 12 hours spend idk how many days and then go back. Like I just want to figure out what my family can help with so his isn't here for too long while I'm not even here. Ill be in the hospital with my little one until he gets out. Ughhhh. I just want it to be easy. 😣😥