Guys if ur husband left u. Would u be comfortable having him in the room when u give birth to his child?

It is his child and he has the right to be there for his entry in the world... my ex was there when i gave birth.. he got there late so he couldnt cone in the room but he would have if i havent gave birth so fast

Maybe not

@eze.love was it awkward?

Yes because that's his child and wants to b there for the birth of his child..u and him has nothing to do with the birth of your child..don't push him away unless he wants nothing to do with bby

@scardona19 you have no choice to get over it.. no matter how much i dislike my son's father i decided to put lots of effort to have a good relationship with him for the sake of my kid. And i really think that this would have been something to start a conflict.. so yes. It was kinda awkward but i focused on how happy i was to have my boy and tottaly ignored it

Im trying to decide the same thing not my husband but he is babys father, i honestly dont think he cares if hes there or not though. Does ur husband want to be there?!

@ib.crazyskittles18 I think he does

@scardona19 i would ask him and if he wants to be there id let him but its your life your decision

I feel that that's up to how you ultimately feel about it. Depending on your situation. If it stresses you out more to have him their I would say no. But if your fine with it go for it.

It's up to you.. Which you already know lol.. But seriously I think I would allow him to be there but maybe not in the room. I know he has stressed you out through the pregnancy so I wouldn't want him by my side. That's emotion speaking but at the end if it all allow him the opportunity and have back up person there for you in case he doesn't show up or doesn't want to be in the room

I would have him just outside, he can come in the second your baby is in this world. But for the birth, it’s about you being comfortable. It’s really up to you. Just because it’s his baby doesn’t mean he has to be there while you go though that. I was completely alone when I had my son, and the father could have been there to see him right after he was born, but he chose not to show up until after we got home from the hospital 🤦🏼‍♀️

Question is.. Did he leave you?