Just want to explode when talking to my in-laws. They apparently don't understand that my son has to…

Just want to explode when talking to my in-laws. They apparently don't understand that my son has to have a very serious surgery and can't move a month or two after. Especially to a tiny ass town that has shit doctors. I don't want to risk my childs health just for their feelings. I don't get how they think oh its okay. We just want to see him. Well then y'all come here and visit. Not risk his LIFE for your feelings. F man. Sorry y'all but it's frustrating.