My bf and I went to a movie this evening and his sister and his mom watched the baby. When we got…
My bf and I went to a movie this evening and his sister and his mom watched the baby. When we got back, I could hear my baby screaming before I even walked up the steps and when we go inside his sister is YELLING at his mom while she was changing my baby. He was to the point where he was hysterical and he NEVER cries like that. I marched over and took him from her before she even had his pants back up. He took a good 5-10 minutes to calm down, which also never happens, and it was such a horrible cry. Everyone was like oh he just started crying right before you guys got back, but if I could hear him before I even got inside I really don’t believe it. They were also arguing about whether or not he wanted his binky. This is not the first time she has yelled while holding/having him and it fucking bothers me so much. I really don’t know how to approach this situation, but I wont be having her watch him again anytime soon. It upsets me so much because I would never be yelling with a baby in my arms, especially someone else’s, especially my brothers kid! Smh. I just wanted to punch her but I just took him in the other room to try to calm him down. Everybody was trying to say “oh he’s probably got a stomach ache, or has to burp” but I know my baby and that cry does not come out ever 😔
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No one should act that way while taking care of a two month old. Everything should be about that baby. If I were you I would have chewed their asses out for not making him feel comfortable and happy their number one priority especially when I'm sure they only watched him for a few measly hours. That's so heartless to let a baby cry and cry when you can help it.
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Omg, how old is his sister... It shouldn't even matter but that is not okay and she needs to know that it's not okay and that it is her fault they can not watch your son anymore 😡
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@mommabear1014, @babymay2016, I agree. I really wanted to but she’s the type that would take it personal and I really don’t want to have issues between everyone. It sounds stupid now saying that lol but she’s kinda a bitch in general. We were gone for less than 3 hours and she has a kid of her own who is 6 and he’s a damn terror. She’s always yelling at him for nothing. She kinda has a contorted sense of reality and how things are so she’s just always so extra with the yelling and being rude to people, particularly her mother. It upsets me and makes me sick to my stomach. she’s 23! I feel like she does know better, but doesn’t do anything about it. I want her to be able to have a relationship with her nephew, and my son with his cousin, but I can’t bring myself to be okay with letting her watch him anytime soon cause I really don’t want my son exposed to that kind of stuff.