Ik it's my 3 child but my 1st 2 are almost 4 years apart.. but since I'm in my 1st trimester should…

U shouldn't carry him at all but especially not in the seat. We're all guilty of it though cause I was picking my one yr old up every now and then too .

@n_favors I just took a pregnancy test on the 20th... So before hand I didn't know and thank you because I just been lifting away

Girl they r heavy by themselves the seat makes them even heavier. Lol! Is your baby walking yet?

@n_favors yes he been walking since he was 8 months

And yes the seat makes them heavier I be struggling lately

Try to pick him up as least as possible but dnt pick him up in that seat at all if you can help it

@n_favors okay I've been trying to break him but it's hard because he a big momma's baby and not that I'm pregnant all he wants to do is be under me

They r our babies though. Mines is too big to b picked up but I still do it more than I should. Good luck wit everything

I carry my 2 year old. Apparently the normal weight restriction is 30 lbs so you should be fine.

@dwampler9116 my son weighs 31 lbs

@ashleymonae, damn

@dwampler9116 yeah he solid

Babies should be out of the infant seats by the time they’re 1. It’s safer for them to be in the position of a rear facing toddler seat than in the infant one.

@lizibear84 the law up here is different they don't care how old your child is it goes by weight and height. I ain't have the money to get him one so that's why he still in the infant seat he just got wide and long out of nowhere

@ashleymonae, I wasn’t talking about law, there are safety standards too. I get not being able to afford it, I’ve been there. I didn’t mean to bash you in any way, I’m just paranoid about car seat safety