To any foster moms on here...👏👏👏 you're a strong breed! I'm babysitting my brother's foster kid and…

What's is so different. Please enlighten me I was a foster child. So I would like to know about the other end

@yessbetty well every child is different but this boy in particular was neglected and wasn't even taught how to speak...except for cuss words...hes 7 years old. They aren't allowed to discipline at all which makes things very hard bc when he's cussing and throwing fits and breaking things, they legally c ant do anything to stop him. They can only try to talk to him. I have respect for people who venture into the foster parent world bc it would be so hard for me personally to never know what age/ background the child will come from. It's in no way the child's fault...just difficult

@babymomma2018 no time outs at the table or go to your room?

But yes it was difficult for whole household when someone would throw a big big fit

@yessbetty they can suggest a time out...but he doesn't do well with suggesting lol .m.they can regulate things like tv time and snacks and things like that so they've been working at using those as bargaining chips lol he's acclimating and so is my brother...i just don't thing they expected it to be difficult...but he's a sweet a kid when he's getting along with ppl!

@babymomma2018 that's what they used to-do to me but I was a lot older then 7. But my brother was 4 so I had to teach out to my extended family for someone to please take him I didn't want him growing up in the system like me

He actually still remember he said he was scared

@yessbetty aww... I'm sorry :/ I bet you're a terrific mom now! I can't speak from experience but I imagine that situation definitly makes a person stonger!

@babymomma2018 that's my goal in life to be better then my parents

@babymomma2018 ty it's ok it's help mold us who we r today and I had fun met a lot of other kids in similar situations and we are like family so I have like 70 unrelated sibling

@yessbetty I believe you succeeded

@yessbetty and I'm glad something positive came out of it for you!