TMI I just wonder if anyone else has my problem too or if I'm just a fucked up individual all together.
So I dont enjoy sex, which pissed my fiance off all the time because I don't want to do it and our sex life is boring. I've never had an orgasm during sex. NEVER. the only time I did was masturbating with water or in my sleep. No partner I've ever had gave me an orgasm. I've tried everything to enjoy it from different lubricants to oils to condoms, positions, techniques etc. If you name it I've probably tried it. Most of the time I can't feel anything in my lady area, but sometimes it hurts. I've been told "you're not doing it right " I'm pretty sure I know HOW to have sex but I just don't get the "drunk off of lust" feelings. If I relax too much I'm boring, if I do too much it's not doing anything for my body.
Sorry just need to vent, I feel like crying every time he gets mad after I say no
Комментарии
Use a cock ring. And there is a tingling lube. Use that too lol it might help
I rarely share sex stories but I've learned that for me to orgasm I need some type of pressure applied just above my lady parts. Idk why. But I've been with 3 men and my husband now is the only one that can get me to orgasm. We have a lot of chemistry anyway but foreplay def helps! Top is my fave position too. That pressure is automatic. That sounds weird but the best way I can explain it.
And I bet when he gets upset it makes u not wanna do it with him ever.
I agree with the other ladies. Personally I need foreplay and clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. It took me a long time before I realized that. You just need to experiment and see what works for you... whether it's foreplay, roleplay, vibrators, oral sex, or just some spontaneity...
but don't feel discouraged. Trust me when I say you're not alone. This is a very common issue with women, especially after giving birth. Communicate with your man and see what u guys can do together to fix things. 💙
@avasmommy808 it's an option though. Do you do foreplay? If so how long is it? Women need at the very least 30 minutes of warm up time.
No guy I've been with has ever gave me a orgasm either. More like when I had sex I had to rub my clit on my own to get off cause it just wouldn't happen with sex alone and none of the guys worried about me getting off they only cared about themselves getting off. I wanted to feel good too so I done it myself and it felt great lol. Sex would get boring if it was the same ol routine and I would Pretend I was enjoying myself most of the time lol. But I loved sex lol. I wanted it more than any guy I been with everyday multiple times a day... But that's just me.... Tell your partner you want to talk and yall come up with ways to focus on pleasing you. Guys love role play. Shoot I love role play lol. Look up different positions and do it randomly in unimaginable places like the car randomly one night on the way home get him to pull over and you hop on top, on the kitchen table, on the lawn lol etc and spice it up a bit so it doesn't get boring. He shouldn't get mad at you but yall should Communicate better to let him know why you don't want to do it.
@jmilanes3 I've tried that. It felt better but still wasn't close
@hippie_momma_bb Never tried anal but the thought of it doesn't sound pleasant to me
You're not alone sweety. Some people are clitoral stimulated. Other people are anally stimulated.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Why Are Many Women Unaware of Their Own Anatomy?
the amount of women who are clueless about their own anatomy is so sad and shocking. a lot of the women are older than me and have more children then I do 😳
now I understand that everyone has their own opinion on the topic and grown adults can do whatever they want with their bodies but to deny facts and make up false statements about your own anatomy when it comes to your unborn child is just so disappointing.
ссылка
so yes ima go hard in the comments bec...
Also, for me orgasming is mental. I have to think of something that turns me on every time. Try watching some porn and see if you can find something that interests you