So I can’t say this on my Facebook but I had such a surprising and good day today. I was able to see a long lost cousin of mine for the first time in over 10 years! Our moms are sisters and had a huge fallout years ago. They don’t speak and so unfortunately, we weren’t allowed to see each other anymore either. It was so strange to see him as an adult (freshly turned 18 as of yesterday) when last I saw him he was this spunky little kid just looking for love and attention. Crazy thing is, we live just a few blocks away from each other now! He snuck away to my house after school so that’s how come I can’t post to my FB. Can’t let his mom find out or else he’ll be in a lot of trouble 😕
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So since my husband and i seem to have issues Asking what we need of each other and when we do it it seems over whelming so I’ve decided once a month we ask each other for something we need either more emotional support , help around the house etc and we work on it and try to make each other happy by fulfilling the other persons need . So it’s not too overwhelming and we slowly change ourselves to fit the other persons needs .
Ugh Valentine's day seems so far away! I have an amazing gift this year for my husband and I jus wana give it to him. What are you ladies doing for your other half this Valentine's day??
Home ? getting to know each other
There are a few new people so thought id start a post so we can get to know these people ? il start