Your only pregnant a few more weeks. Everything for a time.. Take a deep breath focus on your kids and what will be will be.. Don't even entertain him with his foolishness for now. It's all about timing
I know our emotions get the best of us but take this time to journal and plan a new life for you and your kiddos with or without him. You need him now and feel vulnerable and he probably needs you but still needs to grow up because he does not know how to express him self except in this manner. Get yourself a 24 hour gym.. Breadth pump so you can have bottles prepared for his ass when you ready to bounce and get your figure back.. Start shopping for your sex outfits ahead of time because you do plan on getting your figure intact. Set aside time to get your nails done regardless of your finances if he can splurge and go out you can afford to splurge too. Honey you just need to do you.. Have kids changes you and you are responsible for these kids but they won't be babies forever and you won't be mad forever. Enjoy this pregnancy whatever's left, have tea partys with your daughter movie night etc and exclude him and not in a bad way. If he joins in great if he doesn't great just the same. Even if it is itching you internally to curse his ass don't do it, don't cry, laugh and go on mom.life act like your not disturbed. Youll get the hang of it and then figure out what you wanna do with this relationship not what he wants to do. It's your life and you know what's best for you not him so ball is in your court. Ivs been you at age 26 pregnant and frustrated and all I wanted was a family. I get you.. Timing girl I can't stress that to you
@starting_over39 my kids have matured me in a way I never imagined. I don't worry about me any more. It's all them, If we need food or clothes. His next concern is what he's doing on the weekend with his friends.imagine he spent $250 between Friday and Saturday and nothing went toward the household at all.
Try not to get yourself overworked.. You have to take care of your health for baby and yourself.. If you can't control it any longer then maybe you may have to stay with family or him until you two can sit down and have a civil conversation and decide what you both wanna do
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
Your only pregnant a few more weeks. Everything for a time.. Take a deep breath focus on your kids and what will be will be.. Don't even entertain him with his foolishness for now. It's all about timing
Stephanie·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
@starting_over39 u have a way with words my friend. Thank u 😊
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
I know our emotions get the best of us but take this time to journal and plan a new life for you and your kiddos with or without him. You need him now and feel vulnerable and he probably needs you but still needs to grow up because he does not know how to express him self except in this manner. Get yourself a 24 hour gym.. Breadth pump so you can have bottles prepared for his ass when you ready to bounce and get your figure back.. Start shopping for your sex outfits ahead of time because you do plan on getting your figure intact. Set aside time to get your nails done regardless of your finances if he can splurge and go out you can afford to splurge too. Honey you just need to do you.. Have kids changes you and you are responsible for these kids but they won't be babies forever and you won't be mad forever. Enjoy this pregnancy whatever's left, have tea partys with your daughter movie night etc and exclude him and not in a bad way. If he joins in great if he doesn't great just the same. Even if it is itching you internally to curse his ass don't do it, don't cry, laugh and go on mom.life act like your not disturbed. Youll get the hang of it and then figure out what you wanna do with this relationship not what he wants to do. It's your life and you know what's best for you not him so ball is in your court. Ivs been you at age 26 pregnant and frustrated and all I wanted was a family. I get you.. Timing girl I can't stress that to you
Stephanie·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
@starting_over39 my kids have matured me in a way I never imagined. I don't worry about me any more. It's all them, If we need food or clothes. His next concern is what he's doing on the weekend with his friends.imagine he spent $250 between Friday and Saturday and nothing went toward the household at all.
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
Well you need to start stashing some of that money away if you can
Stephanie·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
@starting_over39 I'm going to cus harder times r coming with my next one is due in like 1 month
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
Try not to get yourself overworked.. You have to take care of your health for baby and yourself.. If you can't control it any longer then maybe you may have to stay with family or him until you two can sit down and have a civil conversation and decide what you both wanna do