I’ve posted about my defiant toddler many times before but I’m really at a loss now. She deliberately disobeys. Like, she knows what “no” means and if she’s doing something she knows she’s not supposed to I can ask “do you want to go in timeout?” And she’ll answer “no” and SOMETIMES stop.. I can’t take her anywhere cause she refuses to listen. She runs wild, screams, throws tantrums etc. At home she’s just as bad and absolutely nothing I do or say helps. Timeout doesn’t work, hand poppings don’t work, a pop on the butt doesn’t work, I’ve tried getting down to her level and calmly explaining things or trying to make sure she knows that I understand her emotions and things like that but I’m not even kidding when I say nothing works with her. I’m constantly telling her no and even though she knows she’s going to get into trouble she will do it anyways and then cream this blood curdling scream when she does get in trouble. I’ve raided Pinterest for days, write everything down, tried everything I found... idk what else to do. Everyone keeps telling me it’s “terrible twos” or “she’s just strong willed” or that it’s normal for her age and all of that might be true but there’s gotta be some kind of something that will help me teach her to listen to me and such.
Idk what to do. My daughter is excited to go to school each day but when she’s actually in school she’s giving the teachers such a hard time. She is constantly running out of the classroom, throws tantrums, tells the teacher no & refuses to do any work. I’m really trying to hold off on pulling her back out but I have no idea what to do. I’ve talk to her several times, I’ve taken all of her toys away, took tv time away, told her she can’t play with her siblings yet she’s still doing what she wants in school.. this is day 3 and she is reckless. I know she needs to adjust but I’m afraid this will be a on going thing 😕. I’ve requested to put her in a smaller classroom setting with more teachers, she also has an IEP so I’m thinking she needs the extra support & im hoping this works.
is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
Need some advice. My boyfriends daughter is saying her stomach is upset today and that she’s throwing up. She tends to eat really fast which leads to overeating so I’ve been working with her on that but she says it feels like she’s actually sick. Anyway I’ve had her laying down and she wants to run around and play with the others but I keep telling her to lay down if she’s sick. She went to the restroom and was throwing up and I peeked in to check on her and her hands were in her mouth like she was gagging herself to throw up. I’m not sure how to go about this. Now she’s saying she wants Mac and cheese and I said I’ll make toast because of her stomach and she now feels better. I don’t want to think she’s faking but it seems like it 😞
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
CareyLee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)
I feel your pain...my little boy is the same way!...he’s so hard headed just like his daddy so he gets it honest
Jamie·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
Just testing their limits 👍🏻 it’s all new learning, I work on showing them good choices when they make bad ones... example: today at the park my son put his foot out to push another friend away... I said “that’s not nice! We need to make a good choice like giving a high five or fist bump to our friends.” My son gave him a fist bump and I made a VERY big deal and cheered for his good choice and said “WOW buddy!!!!! Great listening!!! That’s such a good choice!!!” They gave each other like 5 more fist bumps because they saw how happy and excited I got. It can be exhausting for me to be so animaned all the time but it sure works wonders for us 😍
Jamie·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
Only saying no, and giving time outs and getting upset only shows them “bad” things and they only see their bad choice but have a hard time thinking of new nice things at this age 😁
Jamie·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (37 нед.)
@sabby, It can be exhausting and there are days where I just don’t feel like explaining but I need to remind myself that he doesn’t have the mental thought process that I do and doesn’t understand what no means yet so I need to do more of an explanation along with it. It was really fun to learn about that when I was in college. I have an early childhood development degree