kotasmomy2317
Casey
Why is my child so mean 😭 she throws things hits and knocks things out of your hands and messes with things that she knows she’s not supposed to mess with but nothing helps. I’ve tried popping her hand I’ve tried just moving her away from the thing she’s messing with and telling her no I’ve tried putting her in her crib and telling her thats not nice or that’s a no-no i mean I’ve tried everything I know but she’s still soooo means and hand popping doesn’t phase her she’ll either do it back or look at you funny and go right back to what she was doing 😩😩😩😩😩
6.2 лет
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Only saying no, and giving time outs and getting upset only shows them “bad” things and they only see their bad choice but have a hard time thinking of new nice things at this age 😁
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@sabby, It can be exhausting and there are days where I just don’t feel like explaining but I need to remind myself that he doesn’t have the mental thought process that I do and doesn’t understand what no means yet so I need to do more of an explanation along with it. It was really fun to learn about that when I was in college. I have an early childhood development degree
Only saying no, and giving time outs and getting upset only shows them “bad” things and they only see their bad choice but have a hard time thinking of new nice things at this age 😁
Just testing their limits 👍🏻 it’s all new learning, I work on showing them good choices when they make bad ones... example: today at the park my son put his foot out to push another friend away... I said “that’s not nice! We need to make a good choice like giving a high five or fist bump to our friends.” My son gave him a fist bump and I made a VERY big deal and cheered for his good choice and said “WOW buddy!!!!! Great listening!!! That’s such a good choice!!!” They gave each other like 5 more fist bumps because they saw how happy and excited I got. It can be exhausting for me to be so animaned all the time but it sure works wonders for us 😍
I feel your pain...my little boy is the same way!...he’s so hard headed just like his daddy so he gets it honest