I used to think this app was a safe place I could post personal things and get feedback or support from other mamas, but…
I used to think this app was a safe place I could post personal things and get feedback or support from other mamas, but it’s not like that anymore. Lately you can’t post shit without someone jumping down your back for being a bad mom or person, or them making a post about you so they and other girls can gossip about you. It’s heartbreaking that a mom app has turned into something much worse than high school.
callatelaboca·
Give them this emoji....🖕🏻lol
Eryka·
@mom.life_usa, these things should be dealt with accordingly or you will be losing a lot of users due to the cyber bullying.
callatelaboca·
I'm sorry if you're experiencing this
p·
I really limit the amount of stuff I share in here for that reason, I don’t even share pictures of my daughter, sorry you had to deal with ass holes in here !
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
i tagged mom life on the same damn thing and they took my post down.@mom.life_usa,
Eryka·
@itsmely, @p0790, @mom_x3_x2bonuskids, @babeylarissa, I’m just so sick of the gossip a bunch of my friends left for that same reason... it just isn’t right and I’ve literally been talked shit about because I don’t post much and when I said something nicely to the girl I got ignored. Like unless it’s constructive criticism wtf is the point?
Daylene ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 14 лет)
Yeah I dealt with it with some mom who got butt hurt because I unfriended her from social media because I seen her criticizing other mothers, including myself && I didn’t like that. She used my past post(s) to throw in my face that I was a “miserable stay at home mom”. Sad to see that she’s back on this app. People like that shouldn’t even be able to be on this app. This should be a app were mothers can vent and support each other without feeling criticized
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
I agree.. There was the odd trolls to deal with before or one petty individuals but now it's just like tag teaming and group bashing on a certain target when they can find that one mom to take the bait and feed their negativity. They spend time revisiting posts to see if someone disagrees with their input even if wasn't directed at them. God forbid you go against the grain, they message each other privately and tag team that new victim 🤦. Very childish and unbelievable that some of these ppl are still posting on here like they ain't part of the problem. Damn hypocrites! Girl don't let anyone have control of your account.. Once they start their ish about you just screen shot it and all comments if needed and then report the post to mom life and block them. A few spoiled apples shouldn't ruin it for the rest of us who came to this app to share info. Either to agree, disagree or agree to disagree and keep moving. You will find bullies in all areas of life but its doesn't mean we have to take it. Don't take the bait call them out for who they are and continue to the best mom the best you and leave the naysayers right were they belong #🚫toleranceforbullying
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If I know my.post is "controversial" I turn off commenting. If I feel like my comments are getting "controversial" I turn off commenting. Got an issue, take it to me personally in PM. Can't come to agreement then we'll just move on. I will stick up for myself though 👌
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I feel ashamed to say I was a part of this problem for a good amount of time, I was a complete bitch and talked so much shit it was ridiculous. Then one day I kind of just snapped out of it and thought to myself "I'm a grown ass adult with a child, why am I acting like I'm back in high school?!" I've had so many people block me because of me being a shitty person on here. I was able to apologize to one person I was a psycho bitch to because she didn't block me and I was so glad.
-To anyone who has me blocked that may read this: I am sorry for the shitty person I was. I told myself it's time to do better and that is what I'm doing. I hope y'all can give me another chance and unblock me!
Anyways.. I really hope other instigators can chill out and leave people alone on here. It's time to grow up.
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Although some people on here are in the awful habit of talking shit about my best friend and it's really hard for me to let that slide, but I will try to remember there is a report button for stuff like that.
Eryka·
@damiensmommy1117, yay! I mean it sucks you were mean before but I’m super glad you changed your ways ☺️💕 good job mama. Nobodies perfect we’re all a work in progress.
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@eryka616
I'm glad I did too! I actually feel happier since doing it. It's really nice. And thank you!
callatelaboca·
Hope you have a good day ☺