Very true... Thank you for replying i guess she will learn the hard way

Lol rules. She needs some rules if she can't handle her life. There's nothing you can do but support her, sadly. She will either get it together or learn the hard way.

I brought it up...sheesh this is serious then...i told her about homeless shelter but she said no to many rules...see what i mean..ohh welllll

Did she bring up adoption? There's a lot of resources for down and out moms. But she may also suffer from mental disability? That can make it hard to cope. She may also need some therapy.

@kambam this is her first baby but honestly i dont see her try...

I definitely think people in bad situations should avoid more kids. But should work hard to provide for the ones they already have first.

@kambam true.... I tell her to tide her tubes...because she always struggling

My friend is going through this but i tell her yes...if theres no improvement but oh well hopefully turn out good i dont know how to help her

Hell no. But if you have no home and anyone finds out, you do risk CPS taking your children.

If your child would truly be put into a better situation with a lifelong family RIGHT AWAY, then maybe. But everyone has their ups and downs. Your struggle doesn't mean you're a bad mom and not able to be the best for them.

Message pls

Is this a personal or hypothetical question?

If personal, is it possible for you to get into a better situation before the baby arrives?