His family got me fucked up. His family is always saying shit like "Marley is my baby" or "this is Marley..oh and this is her mom Molly".. like first of all. This is MY baby. Mine. Second if all. I am way more than an incubator.

I know they are joking, but come on. Yesterday, we went baby shower shopping and they were like "she's a Mitchell. Blah blah blah" and asking when I was gonna give them a son. Just because she is taking your last name does NOT mean she is yours. Cody(my fiancee) and I aren't married yet..so it makes me a bit uncomfortable that our daughter is getting his last name. We plan on getting married, but it's just the fact that she's tied to the family and I'm just the woman that gave them a granddaughter. I know life happens the way it's meant to, but I wish that they would have gotten to know me before the baby. I just feel like they only care about the baby and not necessarily me.

It's probably dumb as fuck (which is why I've never brought it up)..but it bothers me sometimes.