His family got me fucked up. His family is always saying shit like "Marley is my baby" or "this is Marley..oh and this is her mom Molly".. like first of all. This is MY baby. Mine. Second if all. I am way more than an incubator.
I know they are joking, but come on. Yesterday, we went baby shower shopping and they were like "she's a Mitchell. Blah blah blah" and asking when I was gonna give them a son. Just because she is taking your last name does NOT mean she is yours. Cody(my fiancee) and I aren't married yet..so it makes me a bit uncomfortable that our daughter is getting his last name. We plan on getting married, but it's just the fact that she's tied to the family and I'm just the woman that gave them a granddaughter. I know life happens the way it's meant to, but I wish that they would have gotten to know me before the baby. I just feel like they only care about the baby and not necessarily me.
It's probably dumb as fuck (which is why I've never brought it up)..but it bothers me sometimes.
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@mollyfulton1996
I'm not sure we'll ever have any kind of mutual relationship because she tried to run me over the first day she saw me with my fiance because she thought I was a drug dealer (I was 15, super depressed, wearing sweats and a hoodie and didn't even have my hair brushed) and that's like all I can think about when I'm around her. She claims to my fiance that she feels bad, but doesn't know how to express it and I just don't know if I'll ever believe her. She can be very vindictive.
@damiensmommy1117 that's beyond fucked. I would stop going over there. You are a person who needs to be respected as such
I understand totally. My fiance's mom and I have never even had a conversation, she always told my fiance how she doesn't like me, and I'm not right for him blah blah blah. She never even acknowledged that I was pregnant until a few days before I gave birth. As soon as we have the baby though she's asking what my favorite food is, inviting us over to eat, so she can see the baby. When we're there she doesn't talk to me or even look at me and only pays attention to the baby and it's so awkward.
@damiensmommy1117 sounds like he needs to step up for you. That's unbelievable the way she has treated you. I'd tell him that he needs to step up for the mother of his child if anything.