I feel differently about this. I married my best friend after my first head over heels, would do anything for the guy relationship. I was afraid to love again and I was very protective about who I dated. We have been together over ten years now and when we got married I was not in love with him or at least I didn't think I was. Turned out what we had was something so much better than what I thought love was. It took me years to realize how priceless what we have is. I'm safe with him and can always be my true self and he loves me for that. He is by far the best thing that ever happened to me. It just took me longer to realize it because my first love experience was so unhealthy. You never know, it may not be as bad as it sounds, however, I thank God everyday that I meant enough to my husband that he married me even knowing how I felt because that takes a strong man and I would have missed out on the best thing I've ever had.

Its unfortunately for sure but when gotta take it at face value and not waste anymore time.

@lulu85_18, it’s cool it’s crazy cuz i just asked him this question today

@amarimommy29, so sorry you’re going through this. I agree with @beemommyof3.

@beemommyof3, you got a point

Looks like you will have to either seek counseling or seperate. If he says it then that is what he means.