I have a feeling my soul mate is a female. Idky ya'll I just really have that feeling. Only girls…
I have a feeling my soul mate is a female. Idky ya'll I just really have that feeling. Only girls understand my feelings and a truly listen to me! All i want is to be understood and loved. I love my husband so much but he just hasn't shown me his love in so long and I honestly believe it's bc he don't really love me anymore. I don't want anyone but him! My heart is just so broken. I will never ever do anything to jeopardize my marriage, I love him with all of my heart, and I will never be the one to walk alway. But I can't make him stay and I can't make him love me. Maybe it's just his alcoholism making him so distant from me and not love me anymore. Or maybe it's my depression that he has pushed me in making me think these things. He drinks liquor every single day and then he either goes to bed or fights with me. Idk but whatever it is...we are falling apart! Anyone else struggle with this? I have tried to ride it out and let him stop on his own, I have tried talking to him about it and being patient, and I even tried making him choose between me or the alcohol and he told me if I don't like it to leave bc that's who he is. I even packed up and slept in my car yall he told me he didn't care! What do I do ya'll? What would you do?
Elizabeth·
Sometimes that’s the case , my friend was with her guy for years had a baby and he treated her the same way and now she’s married to a chick and she treats my friend like a queen ..... i hate to say it but it sounds like he isn’t going to change and for him to say if you don’t like it you can leave because that’s who he is is just horrible , I am so sorry he is treating you this way , if I was in your shoes personally I would walk away because it sounds like he isn’t going to change and treating you that way is not alright , keeping you in my prayers and if you ever need to talk I’m here 💕 I went through this with my ex husband and I finally put my foot down after 3 years of this and left him and I’m so happy I made that choice because I’m much happier in life
CareyLee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)
Alcoholism can definitely cause that...my husband use to stop and get beer on his way home from work and he would drink every night...it was hell for me! I cried almost every night because all he would do is fuss at me and then go to bed...this is ironic but thankfully he got a DUI in August and he hasn’t touched a beer since then and life has been so much better...he spends so much more time with me and my son and we hardly ever fuss anymore! He’s about to get his license back in a month though and I’m terrified once he starts driving he will go back to his old ways but I’ve gave him an ultimatum that if I ever see him drink again that he’s gone
Amanda·
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@countrymama121 I just don't understand why I'm not worth it to him. I pray God gives me the strength to get through this bc it is really taking a toll on me. 😭 Thank you for your input girl!
Amanda·
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@careylee I am glad he learned and I pray he doesn't go back girl.
Elizabeth·
@mother.of.angels, I’m sorry girl I couldn’t tell you but it’s his loss and he doesn’t realize what an amazing women he has , for so long I questioned why I wasn’t worth it to my ex and literally drove myself crazy I came to the realization that it was his own problems and issues and I was worth more then what he deserved , awww I bet and I’m sorry your having to go through this , of course girl , here if you need to ever chat ☺️
Amanda·
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@countrymama121 Awhh, thanks so much girl. Means alot to hear that. I am here if you want to talk too.