I need advice y’all ... So I’ve never met my biological fathers family only my sister, brother, and…
I need advice y’all ...
So I’ve never met my biological fathers family only my sister, brother, and 2 aunts which is only a tiny bit in the big family. Well my Uncle who I’ve never met died today and my sister said to me oh I’m leaving to Vegas tomorrow evening so I’m not sure if you wanna leave then or sooner to go. So I said I don’t think it’d be good for me to go since I literally don’t know anyone and it would be wrong, but what do y’all think should I go to Vegas for a bunch of people I don’t even know or should I stay home. Also I’m broke af so I’d have no money.
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
If it works out for you to go then I think it could be good. But it sounds like you're not in the position to make the trip and that's totally fine. I wouldn't, personally.
Eryka·
@kambam, thank you I just feel like my sister is pressuring me, and i don’t think it’s the best thing for me right now.
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
I understand where she's coming from but she needs to understand that your life is with your family right now. Don't feel bad!
Kendra·
I agree with @kambam, . Doesn’t seem like the right time or occasion to go . Your sister should understand 💕
Eryka·
@domsmama96, thank you
Adri M·
Мама сына (4 года)
No you should go for a bunch of people you don’t know. Maybe she’s pressuring you because she won’t know any one either. But if money is tight then I’m sorry I don’t have that luxury.
Adri M·
Мама сына (4 года)
*shouldnt
Eryka·
@mommytonicolas, she knows them though
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
I would send flowers or something but it's not the place to have a reunion or actually meet up with family you've never met under those circumstances. I would find another way to show my condolences. Plus if money is another set back woman hang on to your funds. Pray for your uncle wish him well as he leaves this earth but don't put yourself in financial hardship to go. Still your choice at the end of it all.
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
If your sister wants to pay your way then maybe. Ask your father what he thinks and he could help you financially go if you really want to go. If money is the only thing preventing you then they should contribute in all fairness. I send my condolences to you and your family hun.. He us still your blood relative even if you barely knew him, I'm sure he would have been quite fond of you 🤗😘 big hug
Eryka·
@starting_over39, thank you very much, but I said biological father because that man is nothing to me except the sperm that made me. He’s been on drugs since forever and is homeless and always in and out of jail and he likes living that way. I have a amazing dad who adopted me and he doesn’t think I should go because I don’t know them.
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
Ohh I see.. Ya I wouldn't go... Maybe to another function and see. If the family is receptive to you and want to build a relationship too