I seriously need to vent. So my sons father still loves here after loosing his job, has slept all…
I seriously need to vent. So my sons father still loves here after loosing his job, has slept all day today and probably will tomorrow. This isn't the first time either.. He does nothing!! I don't get to just sleep whenever I want! He also makes me wait on him hand and foot, if I don't its a big arguement. So I just do it because I'm tired of not getting along. You'd think he should be the one letting me sleep, doing things for me, taking care of our son so I can get some rest. But NOPE!! This is part of the reason I left him and don't want to be with him. This is becoming fucking ridiculous!
M & M·
You're still giving him relationship benefits.
Klynne·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)
@chocolatemomma how so
M & M·
He's living with you, you're waiting on him hand and foot, wasting time arguing with him, sleeping with him, etc. If you left him then none of this would be going on. He has control over you. He shouldn't be there, you shouldn't be waiting on him hand and foot, sleeping with him, arguing, etc. He has you where he wants you and you probably think you're in control of the situation. You shouldn't be dealing with him sleeping all day and not helping you or letting you sleep. You left him remember? All of that is supposed to be history not your current situation.
Klynne·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)
@chocolatemomma I'm not sleeping with him, and we got this apartment together its kinda hard to just kick him out. I'm kinda stuck. I just hope if I stop doing these things he will get the hint and leave.
M & M·
Why do you say you're stuck? Is the place in both of your names?
Klynne·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)
@chocolatemomma Kinda
M & M·
Ok
Marilu·
@acesmomma, didn't he mess around with another woman recently? He probably won't change by you giving in to avoid arguing. Takes something drastic for men like that. I've learned that you have to do what you need to do whether they get mad or not. They'll either get over it or move on. Then you'll know what you meant to him if he leaves or stays and shuts up. Lol
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That is wild