Hey guys got a question.. I just had my lil boy 2 weeks ago and I'm exclusively breastfeeding. My BF is losing patients with me because he wants to be sexual with me, but I have absolutely no interest in anything sexual since having my baby.. Anyone else dealt with this before??
A lot of men get that way and it's their problem not yours. 2 weeks seems like a bit soon to start having sex again anyway after just having a baby. He's just going to have to deal with it, you just had his baby.
Tell him to get over it. They say to wait at least 6 weeks to be intimate because of the chance of immediately getting pregnant again and risk of infection. Your boy is still healing and he should be more understanding. I waited 8 weeks and stopped after 2 minutes because of the pain. Waited a few more months after that. My husband had to make it work.
@skylersmommy11916 @dbarton041 Yeah he knows I can't have sex, but he wants me to "help him out" or do other stuff but I have 0 interest, I want nothing to do with it. I feel bad about it and idk why I feel this way, but I just don't want anything to do with that stuff. Maybe because I'm breastfeeding?? Idk..
@abreton666, oh oh I misunderstood. I was the same way. Your hormones are still trying to get back to normal so I would think it’s probably that ☺️
@dbarton041 Yeah that makes sense. I'm just sick of getting bitched at about it. It's really awkward and knowing that he's always staring at me and making sexual comments, it's so uncomfortable..
Haha 😂😂 boys will are always thinking of themselves either he can wait or he will cheat and that's when you leave his ass cause he showed true colors !!
I am right now I feel the same way it took me till three weeks to give one blow
I always tell my hubby if he thinks he needs to get off then he can go play with himself
@toshagager1988 Yup that's what I said but he says it's not good enough lol.
@abreton666 I'd say to bad then sucks to be u lol I've had 5 kids and I've never gave him a handy or bj after lol maybe I'm just mean lol
@abreton666, seriously I told him straight up I'm not feeling you right now only thing I can focus on is the baby and hope my vag feels better ... I told him did u push a baby out ... no ...
@abreton666 thanks my kids say I am cause I won't let them do or eat what they want
@precious1997w That's what I'm sayin! The thing is though, I'm fine down there, I'm just totally not in the mood, and I feel like I'm turned off by him now too.. idk what's going on.
Same I wasn't fine down there but I was definitely turned off like I didn't even really want kisses
@abreton666 hell im turned off and i havent even had the baby yet! i hope my sex drive does come back after i have the baby tho...
I’ve been the same way .. I have 0 interest in sex 😩 and I EBF
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I am right now I feel the same way it took me till three weeks to give one blow
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@abreton666, seriously I told him straight up I'm not feeling you right now only thing I can focus on is the baby and hope my vag feels better ... I told him did u push a baby out ... no ...