Court went okay, her biological father got weekends Friday at 5----Sunday at 5 except the 3rd weekend and that's okay I guess, just gonna be hard not having my baby every night 😭💞
When me and my ex first separated he got the kids every weekend because he worked through the week. He finally told me he didn't want them every weekend that he wanted a life too. 😒 but when he picked them up they kicked and screamed and cried not wanting to go. He had to literally pick them up and put them in the car. I cried all weekend. And then he would drop them off at his moms and not have them at all. He'd drop them off and go see his new woman and one time he butt dialed me and I heard him playing with her little girl and he hadn't called his own kids in two weeks. I got so mad. Why take them then??? When he got done running women he decided he wanted to be a father again. But his new wife is hateful. I hate it. I'm remarried and my husband can be a total jerk but I said I'd never put another one of my babies through that again. Ill just beat him if he thinks we aren't gonna work it out. lol I wish you the best. It's hard to deal with.
@mshep7217 That's just horrible. Listen, I'm all for a father that wants to be apart of his children's life...truly, but in my situation and yours it sounds like, we have to get peace of mind that our babies are going to be safe 100% of the time. I don't risk her life with anything I do and sadly I can't say he has the same judgement as me. I didn't find out anything about his disability until he pursued wanting 50/50 custody of my daughter. I wish we could have continued the temporary plan that was established where he visited her at a family facility that was supervised by someone, with cameras too...for only a couple hours a week. But this judge already warned me, once she gets his disability ppw from social security she intends to give the father unsupervised visitations more. I just sat there, like "wth"