Honest hour: Do you find it ungrateful that I would be upset knowing I'm having another boy when I…

I would honestly feel the same way. I have two girls. I already told my husband were quitting after 3 so if the 3rd is a girl too then I would be devastated

Not at all , I want a boy sooo bad, if I find out I’m having s girl I will be so disappointed, and crushed! Of course as long as the health of your baby comes first and is more important , it’s also like you’ve gotten your hopes up , but things happen we can control it . So all we can do is love our baby unconditionally & pray next time it’s what you want 😊

Nope. I was having panic attacks at the thought of having a girl. I was 100% sure i was pregnant with a boy, but shit happens.

Not at all. I wanted this pregnancy to be a boy SOOO bad but it’s a girl and I still till this day find it hard to accept but I’ll love her no matter what!! ❤️

@lexirosex3 @ashleydunn @keilaa @worlds.okayest.mom I was attacked and called "wack and ungrateful" on my last post by another mom because I stated that I would be sad if this was another boy ... I thought this was a place to vent and express your feelings and emotions as a woman/mother/pregnant woman, but I guess not lol 🤷‍♀️

@jleona

It's called gender disappointment and it's a real thing. Doesn't make you ungrateful.... People are just rude ..

Absolutely Not! You’re just human. Shoooottt if I was having another boy I would’ve been very disappointed but by the time he comes I would of been over it because that would be my baby regardless.

Stop listening to others you’re liable for your feelings! F the rest it’s always gonna be a side hater in the mix 🙄

Don’t listen to negativity. Pisses me off when people got nothing better to do than to fuck with others feelings 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️... I pray you get your girl 🙏🏼 but if you don’t, you’ll be okay. ☺️ soon as you have the baby all that will go away.. ❤️

It’s normal to be upset!! There’s a bunch of articles on this because it is SO common. I was upset for a few days that I was having another boy

Of course not! I was upset and disappointed when I found out I was having another girl.. for about a week lol just the thought of having two daughters had me worried! But eventually I got over it and now I'm over the moon about my second babygirl. ❤❤ If you have another boy you'll be mad at first but you'll get so excited about it eventually

There's nothing wrong with feeling disappointed, I was disappointed when I found out my son wasn't gonna be a girl but I still love him more than anything. I'll be disappointed for sure this time if this one is a boy but I know l still love this one just the same too

You're not the first or last to feel that way. I've always wanted all boys, all my baby dolls as a child were even boys lol and the thought of a girl terrifies me. I never had a mother/daughter relationship with my mother bc she didn't raise me so I wouldn't know where to start with a girl. Being a boy mom is just my comfort zone. I'm still parinoid it's gonna pop out and be a girl! But like everyone else says at the end of it all your baby is your baby no matter what and you take it all in as it comes and goes!

I cried and felt kinda sad when i found out it was another girl. I really wanted a boy. But im in love with my baby girl ❤❤❤ Hopefully in the future, i will get the boy that i always wanted.

No i don't think your ungrateful. I was like with my son and will be like that if this child isn't what i would like it to be. I wanted my son to be a girl but he wasn't. And i was sad at first and i got over it. I now realize he was what i needed at that time in my life.

I would I have two boys also and really want a girl I feel I'm ready and with my boys I wasn't think I had boys for a reason then lol but feel like a girl would complete us but don't want to get my hopes up and be so disappointed