Hey ladies, how soon after having a vaginal delivery did you have sex with your boyfriend or husband? They said 4 to 6 weeks but I'm fine down there now. I'm not bleeding anymor...

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Hey ladies, how soon after having a vaginal delivery did you have sex with your boyfriend or husband? They said 4 to 6 weeks but I'm fine down there now. I'm not bleeding anymore or anything.. how long did you wait?

Amy · Answer

@lizibear84 wow

Amy · Answer

@beemommyof3 yeah I know thanks!

Amy · Answer

@johnsonarriel24  Ahahaha I'm too scared to. Was just curious.

Amy · Answer

@sadiesue0718 shit I would've been too!

Amy · Answer

@mberjuste5  Lol I haven't done it yet, I was just curious when you guys did it.

Arriel Johnson · Answer

@abreton666 girl wait! its only been a week!

Justina Williams · Answer

I had sex with a condom on after 2 weeks. I went really slow and it hurt to go too deep so uhhhh yeah i wouldn't recommend it.

Sarah · Answer

I waited 8-10 weeks. I had a 3rd degree tear after an episiotomy, and a 10 lb baby after 42 hours of labor. Sex was the LAST thing on my mind, and when it did pop up I was like “HELL NO!” My husband is not small by any means. So frankly I was afraid of the pain.

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4 to 6 weeks isnt for healing alone.  It is to avoid the risk of infection, hemorrhage or bleeding, pregnancy etc.  So even though you may be "fine down there" it isnt recommended to do so for your safety

Elizabeth Hebert · Answer

@abreton666, He was 8-14 and 22in, with a big head, lol. He got stuck and the vacuum couldn’t even get him out. I wound up pushing him out somehow in 36 min

danielle@barton · Answer

@lizibear84, seconded. You can get an infection and as previously mentioned, you are immensely fertile. I waited 8 weeks and the pain was so intense that I had to stop. Waited another month after that.

Harley Quinn · Answer

I would wait. At least until you get the okay from the doctor. The risks of infection and getting pregnant again so soon aren’t worth waiting a couple more weeks.

Amy · Answer

@lizibear84 Ugh that sucks, with my first baby I tore down there and needed stitches for my second and third I didn't tear it all so that's good

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I would wait (not telling you what to do)just because you can be at risk for infection and you’re also very fertile after birth, plus you can still spot here and there, i still spot and my daughter is 5 weeks old.

chelle berjus · Answer

Waitttrrr.. Please just wait at least 3 more wks....he can hold on

Elizabeth Hebert · Answer

But you also run the risk of infection if you have sex too soon.

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6 weeks
You're also super fertile tight after birth so keep that in mind as well

Elizabeth Hebert · Answer

I waited 8 weeks. I bled for 4 and had a 2nd degree tear, so I had stitches. We could’ve had it before then, but you’re also super fertile right after birth, so I was paranoid

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