I have to vent BIG TIME SO me and my bf have been together off and on fir about two years.Now when…
I have to vent BIG TIME
SO me and my bf have been together off and on fir about two years.Now when we were off i had sex with a guy i knew because I was over our relationship and thought that we were not going to get back together.Long story short i got pregnant and had my wonderful child.Now we are back together and he’s supportive and the prefect guy now that my son is here . But im really confused on my feelings now he (my bf) likes to go out now yesterday hes frat brothers got together and had one hell of a night. But he has this theory that if he’s upfront with me then that makes it better but im so tired of feeling like im getting played like i love him but this isn’t the 1st time we have this problem. Now he didnt sleep with these females but he likes to go out and forget about me and he flirts but if i do it then all hell breaks loose. I dont know what to do ,I want to have his child and start our family but i cant keep feeling like everything i say falls on deaf ears
Tania·
There may need to more communication. Insecurities are unhealthy in a relationship, but building trust can restore it. A relationship needs to balanced on both sides to avoid feelings of doubt. Careful decision making before having a child is key to avoid consequences. Having a little faith and being open with one another can fix the problem, or a temporary break up may help each person become more considerate of their significant other.
Nana Beauford·
U have to talk to him about it sweety and keep a ferm thought with the convo because if u don't stay ferm he won't take u serious and if he's a man he will understand and try to do better if not he will continue to play with ur heart and if the talk don't work in my opinion it's time to try and do it on ur own for a lil bit not saying to leave him just saying take a break so he will Kno that it's really hurting u
Nana Beauford·
Because u don't need the two years to turn to 6 or 7
Brittney Harris ·
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I'm confused on why he is even out with other chicks in the first place...if he is with you and loves you.. he should not be flirting with and being around other chicks in that way. Sounds to me like a control issue in a way. If he is gonna do that then he can't say a damn thing about anything you do or want to do. I'd definitely talk to him and tell him how you're feeling.