So I found out from my baby son's cousin that his father and aunts were talking shit about me…
So I found out from my baby son's cousin that his father and aunts were talking shit about me because I broke up with his father. Why should I stay with someone who doesn't help himself and won't find a job and has every excuse in the book as to why not. Who also won't take credibility for his own actions. Smh, but my ass is in the wrong for not staying in the relationship. Also they are mad because I wouldnt answer the phone worth shit last night as well. So I'm cheating! Smfh I'm not with his ass so how is that cheating??
Allyson Almeda·
Who cares what other people think. If he wasn't doing his job as a partner to you and wasn't setting a good example for you kids, then you're definitely not in the wrong for leaving. I left my son's father about a year ago because he was mentally and emotionally abusive and didn't do his job as a father unless we were in public and he just wanted to look like father of the year, and sometimes even then he wouldn't want to do a damn thing. There's people in my family who still believe I shouldn't have left and I should have stayed anyway like my sister of all people who tried to talk me out of marrying him in the first place, but I really don't care what anyone says. I'm better off now for sure and so is my son.
Shalahea·
@skylersmommy11916 omg that's exactly how he acts. He's acting like a victim in this situation and his family just lapping it up knowing he ain't shit smh
Allyson Almeda·
@shalahea04 he went to his family and talked mad shit about me and his mother has always babied him his entire life so of course she never really liked me so it was that much easier for her to just think I was an evil bitch while still trying to be nice to me to see her grandson which I wasn't falling for. They haven't seen him since he was 6 months old in person and I'm perfectly ok with that because his family is nothing but hypocritical, manipulative, people who think they are better than everyone else.
Shalahea·
@skylersmommy11916 his niece told me he switched up the whole convo that I had with him when we broke up. His ass mutually agreed like his ass was in hot water waiting to jump out of it.
Allyson Almeda·
@shalahea04 smh of course, he's gotta look like the better person.
Shalahea·
It's fucked up though. Also my ass was the one who bought and paid for everything and they know that