Dunno how to deal with the SO constantly starting fights then finding anyway to blame it on me or…
Dunno how to deal with the SO constantly starting fights then finding anyway to blame it on me or justify what he's said and done to me. He makes me feel like I'm going crazy on top of the fact I already feel crazy being pregnant. He just finds anyway to yell at me call me any name in the book tell me he doesn't love me. Constantly breaking up with me. How do I deal with this? I feel like I have nowhere to run and no one to talk to and it's like now I can't get out of being depressed cause it's like his goal to put me there. Then complain I'm sad and depressed 😞
Taylor Chiveral·
He’s being emotionally and mentally abusive, that’s pretty serious. I would try and get out while I can and you can always message me and talk about whatever!
Lulu·
What he’s doing to you is not healthy. If you really want to try and make it work with him, I suggest trying couples counseling. If he is not willing to go with you, he’s not ready to change.
cantdeletebutimgone·
On top of what @taybabyx said he seems to be insecure and has control issues. He may be blaming everything on you to take some kind of guilt off of himself. It's is mental, emotional and verbal abuse, mind games and manipulation. Sounds to me like he's on a power trip. You are getting the brunt of it because you are the one constant you are the only one around so in his mind believes he has the right to do this to you. He isn't going to stop and the longer you allow it the more he's going to do it. In his mind that's you excepting it aka giving him permission. You either need to put your foot down and show him he can no longer continue the behavior (your not having it) or find a way out.
Taylor Denton·
I literally just went through the same thing , and the best thing you need to do is leave . I know you guys are gonna have a kid together but it’s not healthy for you to stay in that situation. And you keep taking him back is reason why he thinks I.ts okay to keep talking to you like that cause you made him comfortable, and no man should ever fe comfortable for making a woman feel worse about herself. It’s gonna be hard but he is not the man for you if he was I.t wouldn’t be like this . You need to be happy and make sure you’re kids are good cause that’s all that matters.
Jazmyne·
Omg my so does the same damn thing smh