So my OBGYN wants me to think about either getting on another birth control which I don't want to do…

Get the arm 1. I cant remember the name but i have it lol. I think its good for 3 yrs though

I would just go with birth control. I'm on the pill, it's been great to me and I'm one to forget things so I have an alarm set for the time I need to take it that goes off every night lol

Don't let ur doc force u to do something ull regret if u don't want to use BC then just take precautions if u don't want a baby I could never get fixed well I probably would if it ever came down to pregnancy could kill me that would be the only reason plus I'd have to have multiple opinions

@raisinghazel it's called the Implanon I had that after I had my son I bled for 6 months so the doctor told me to remove it. Then I started using the NuvaRing I was on that for a year and a half. Any birth control except for an IUD causes vaginal dryness and that's what I was dealing with and I was told it was because of my birth control.

@twistedrenots I've tried the pill, the NuvaRing, Mirena and the Implanon. Honestly I just want to know how my natural body flows again I've been on birth control for a year and a half. I'm just trying to give my body a break without being pregnant on top of the fact that they're saying that my heart doesn't beat the same so I have to have a ultrasound of my heart to see what's going on so I completely stop birth control just to be safe I don't want to have a heart attack or stroke at 27 u know and it could have been prevented if I wasn't on birth control.

@toshagager1988 yeah I'm not I was giving it some thought about getting my tubes tied but in my heart that's not what I really want. My man acts like we can't used condoms he doesn't pull out all the time. Which makes me withhold sex because I tried to feel like he's being careless and I'm the only one that's worried about having another baby.

@theirmommytiara as woman we do what we have to we are or have to be responsible for everything my hubby would rather pull out I hate it cause I feel like I have another mess to clean up and it's not like hr can make it a neat pile lol

@toshagager1988 lol yeah u right.. mine's always pullout too late and then "he'll say oh damn u not on birth control" like really fool honestly I want to know what's so bad about condoms

@theirmommytiara u can say no condom no sex or try woman's condoms

@toshagager1988 thats what I been doing and it's killing me because I really be wanting it. but thank u I'll look into the female condoms.

@theirmommytiara good luck and ur welcome