I’m soooo frustrated! I’ve been trying to peacefully leave this relationship that I’m unhappy in, and he is not getting it. I’m trying to not be so harsh by telling him we need a break and that he should move out for a while but he’s not taking me seriously. I would hate to have to get rude.. it’s like he uses the bond that him and my son (he is not the dad) as a cushion for him to stay. 😩 FML
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Yes! I am determined to put my happiness first! Thank you and good luck to you too.. you will find the strength
You have support from your mom, your gma, your new mommies on this group & me. Leave that bummmmmmmmmmmmm
Being nice is only going to prolong the situation & make it worse, but if you feel like you want to give him til the end of the month since he paid his half do it but just don’t show any sort of affection treat him like a room mate. Don’t go anywhere with him or do anything for him. It will prepare him for what’s in store & show him your actually serious this time. If your nice & act normal he will get the wrong idea & in feb you will be back to square one again complaining looking for another exit route
Omg! I know what you're going through! :*( still going through it. Ive never been alone I wish I had more strength. Eventually it'll blow up, the longer you wait and more you think about it or try to deal with it, the less time you spend truly being happy and enjoy life. Praying for ya!
He’s so manipative and knows how to play the victim very well.
@nvrendingstry86, I don’t really have too many close friends and not too much family either so I’m pretty much dealing with this the way I can. He Dosent necessarily treat me bad.. it’s just that he’s super childish and I’ve been playing “mommy” to him for two years and I’m really tired of it and I want to do things to make myself happy even if that means being alone.
I'm sorry, I do know how you feel. It's a tough situation and I myself am not that strong. You have the right to be happy and do what's right for your son. Do you have anyone that you could consider as a replacement? Roommate or family member that could move in and help push him out. I hate dramatic sitations, games and blindsiding but if he can't get it maybe that's what it'll take. You don't need that crap, not sure how he treats you, be careful.
@nvrendingstry86, smh I already know it’s gonna get harder. I just want to get the process started. I know it’s gonna be a roller coaster ride.
@niaajani, ive been trying to be nice Nia because he gave me $500. But it’s getting hard
Kick him outttttttttttttt he’s a bum Taji
Exactly.. I’ve tried telling him like we’re both not happy and he agrees. But he never wants to leave. He makes it seem like it’s another guy involved or something. Smfh
@tajicashaw same with my baby daddy our two year anniversary is on the 22nd and I tried in a polite way to tell him I don't wanna be in this relationship anymore and he always put our daughter there and I'm like she's just gonna see two parents arguing all the time and see that we aren't happy
@shanique17, our two year “anniversary” was on the first of this month and neither of us said anything to each other about it. The relationship had been over for about 2 months now... it’s more of a comfortability thing with him now because I’ve always done everything for him.
@niaajani, oh whoops. This is just like Facebook