Honestly despite our downs my husband truly amazes me everyday, I always feel so selfish because I…

Tell him I bet he’ll appreciate your gratitude a lot

I feel like this too although my bf hasn’t done anything to me for me to be upset about. I thinks that when I’m in a bad mood it isn’t fair to him but always in my head rehearse something like u just said above but never have the guts to say.

Tell him! I tell my husband that especially when he's having a bad day at work or has to work late. He is our rock and provides for us. I used to hold all the benefits and if he hated a job; he'd move on or work his way to a better one. Now, he's at an employer where it has its moments. I know he wants to find something better but hard with a baby on the way.

And he's outside all day 10-12 hours in this freezing negative weather. I check in on him by phone a few times a day. On his day he's delivering in our area; I try to meet him for lunch if I am working (a child free meal)! It's the little things! He got a Xmas bonus and handed it to me. I looked at him and told him to use it on himself. He earned it! He bought new boots for work that are warmer and waterproof.