Don’t care if you’ve had 1 baby or 12 babies. The phrase “ you say that know” or “wait till you’re in labor” makes me…

Girl I feel the same way sometimes you gotta ignore people sometimes and let them talk because it’s not that serious none of us know each other it’s just a app some moms take this app to serious and not that serious it’s either you take someone else’s advice or you don’t no need for people to get mad but I understand where you coming from girly don’t let someone you can’t physically see make you mad

I didnt go natural, but everyone told me I'd be screaming and angry in labor and i just let them say what they wanted cause i know the kinda person i am. I didn't scream or yell at anyone even once. I used pain meds and breathing techniques and i was fine.

@justinakmatta, I practice breathing and I’ve been meditating for years. I know anything can happen or change but I’m so determined and Ik my self enough to never think of less than what I want to achieve, just gets to me when people think they know it all 😅 but your brave lol I scream at everyone even if I’m not mad sometimes 🙈🤦‍♀️

@melody_momof5, thanks

@ckaitate, thanks

@xomarylee giirl, i was huffing that nitrus gas like it was crack 😂😂😂 then later on i got the epidural but i only used it once cause when they were explaining to me to press the button if i needed more i was in pain and it went in one ear and out the other. By the time i felt like i needed more and my bf reminded me i was already ready to push. I pushed him out in a couple of tries and it wasnt nearly was bad as i thought itd be

@justinakmatta, I’ll try the gas for sure if I can’t take the pain but I hear it makes you too drowsy 💤 and I really want to experience everything for my first baby.

@xomarylee natural or not it's amazing what your body can go through even when you don't believe it can. I was so scared of giving birth even knowing i was going to use pain meds. After the whole experience i thought I'd never want to have kids again and here i am with a baby who's only 2 weeks old reminding myself i can't have another one right now. I believe in you girl, you got this ❤💙💜 its like having bad cramps which I've always been a baby about but if you can handle that you can handle it

@justinakmatta, thanks mama

And congrats on your baby ♥️

Also when family members tell you how you will feel and be during pregnancy acting like they know all about how it's going to go down. I was told I'd be a bitch, throwing up constantly, and eating everything. My mood isn't bitchy it's more crying, I haven't had morning sickness, and I don't eat more than before.. Then they also think they know how I'll be in labor and postpartum...

@xomarylee you're welcome and thank you 💜💙❤ all nitrous does is relax you and dull the pain. If you have too much it could make you sleepy or nauseas but If you take the mask off those feelings will go away quick. And they give you the mask so that you and only you can use it and hold it. So no one else will be able to hold it to your face or anything. You're totally in control of it. http://americanpregnancy.org/labor-and-birth/nitrous-oxide-labor/

You sound butt hurt 😂 why make a whole status when we were conversing on a post ?? Nobody's being childish, except YOU if you ask me, be an adult about the situation. Don't make a status for attention, if you have something to say, my inbox is ALWAYS open and I don't argue but nor do I bite my tongue. I'll let my opinions be known without being hostile about it 😚😚 you're so young so I'm not even going to go in on you too much ! Put your big girl panties on, get out your feelings and don't take EVERYTHING so personal 😄💋

Just going to delete that last comment I made for you because I don’t got time to entertain people like you on here 😂 think as you like. Ik what I stand for. @krisfreeman

@xomarylee I never once said anything about my age, I just called YOU young. You young girls are something else 😂 lol and I'm not arguing sweetheart, just speaking my mind. Just like you are, right ?? I also never said I KNOW you, but you obviously felt some type of way to make a status referring to a convo we were just having LMBO and you would've "told me off" ?? Lol if you're so better than that you wouldn't have made a status but I'm done though. I applaud your confidence love 😘 keep doing you and stop with the indirect statuses lol

@xomarylee, your welcome hun ❤️

Labor is labor hurts like hell but I honestly have had an epidural my first daughter and second completely with out pain meds babe honestly either way it’s natural ! You do what’s right for you and don’t care what people say I’ve honestly did all three , I had a c section too that there was no joke .. fuck what people say do what you have to ; to have a healthy baby

Amen! If you go in determined you can do it, whatever it is!