Am I petty for being mad about this? (Probably am but oh well.🙃) Kind of long so read at your own…
Am I petty for being mad about this?
(Probably am but oh well.🙃)
Kind of long so read at your own risk, lol.
Okay so back in 2013, I was dating someone(my ex) and I began working somewhere where I met my current boyfriend.. I never cheated on my ex but soon after I began working there, my ex became insecure and thought I was going to leave him for my current boyfriend which did end up happening BUT that’s not the point.. lol, so I left his ass... the second my current boyfriend and I started talking, I told him I don’t do that exes bullshit. I don’t like when exes are involved in relationships so we both agreed they would not be bought up.. soo HE personally took a blanket that my ex gave me and threw it out even though it was my favorite one but i didn’t mind because it was from my ex.. i threw out all of my exes pictures that I had of us as well as some love notes and all that gay shit. Anyway, his ex would constantly come to my job and harass me basically and she would always try to communicate with him and I let it go... 8 fucking years later after they broke up, I decide to snoop around my boyfriends old stuff at his dads house (I live there) and I find that he still has some of his exes shit... pictures, notes, clothes, belongings etc... AM I FUCKING PETTY FOR BEING MAD?!?! I literally threw out all of my exes shit once we started talking and I mean, I know he forgot that they were in the dresser but shouldn’t he have gotten rid of her shit I don’t know, 5 fucking years ago at least when we started talking?!?! This is the second time I find her shit somewhere around the house.. I know it’s been there for years but what the fuck? Shouldn’t he have gotten rid of it a long time ago?!?! Smh. I’m not insecure or anything but i just don’t think it’s fair that i did all that for him and after finding all this shit, my feelings are actually really hurt because it seems he was more deeply in love with her than he is with me.. i know it’s my fault for snooping but seriously.. am i being petty? 🙄
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I would’ve been pissed as fuck! BUT I would just throw it out myself and not say anything. I did it years ago when I move in with my man. I was cleaning out the house and found some stuff. Threw it out and kept quiet. 🤷🏻♀️
Ashley Harris·
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Throw that shit out like he did with that blanket. Fuck that I’d be 😤
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@t143, lol, believe me... I did... but seriously, am I exaggerating?! And the first time I found shit wasn’t too long ago either.
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@harris.ashley92, thank you!! 👏🏼
K.·
Burn that sh....t. lol
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I don't think you're exaggerating considering he had you throw out your ex's stuff 🤷
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He don't need it !!!! Lol good for throwing it out
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@momofmonsters2, @ashleydunn, thank you ladies. ☺️
Jess🌹♥️·
I don't think you should feel that he loved her more. just bc the stuff is there doesn't mean he purposely kept it bc he loved her more. he might have forgotten but yes he should've gotten rid of that shit right after they broke up especially since he was so quick to get rid of a simple blanket. he's got a drawer of collectibles 🤦🏽♀️ for that kind of stuff to still be there after so many years is kinda weird too 😳
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@jaxons.mom09, thank you babe. 💜
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He’s lucky you didn’t set that shit on fire like I did with some cards and pictures I found. 🙃 i threw away everything I had a feeling was her’s.
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@t143, I was going to but he’s at work and my son was napping so it wasn’t going to satisfy my anger lol... it just hurts, you know? Like he really cared about this girl and something that stood out to me were pregnancy tests. Like he even had a note written to her saying that he wishes she had gotten pregnant since they were trying and when I was pregnant, omg. I don’t even think he wanted a baby with me at first. And I even burned my exes pictures that I had of us to show my boyfriend that there was no going back and I wasn’t just telling him that I was going to throw them out and then go back on it. Smh.