@dbf123, have the man wear a condom and have a back up plan in case it breaks. Let’s just say, I know PLENTY of women who have never had issues with having their tubes tied. My mother and several close friends.
Everyone is different. So saying anyone is wrong, but I would recommend doing some personal research because everyone is going to have a different story to tell about everything.
My husband agreed to get a vasectomy after this baby, which is reversible so if we decide at one point that we want another baby, we have that option.

:( so doctors lie... I dont want to get birth control its painful and bloating and etc WHAT AM I GOING TO DO WHEN I LOVE SEX haha

I wouldn't recommend having your tubes tied speaking from experience here.. I had mine tide for 7yrs, doctors will not warn you about the consciousness and pain it brings... I had to be put in counciling it was so horrible! B4 into detail there are 90% of woman that will or have the same issues I did, 5% will do just great! Son you will have that "5%" tell you that "O so and so had them tide no problems! " or "my whole family had it done and issues! " smh.. There part of that 5%. That did great! As for the 95%? Not so much.. 5% are at higher risk of having a hysterectomy with in the first 15yrs of being tide... I suffered painful excruciating periods that balled me up in bed for days, a ultras plus tampon wouldn't hold, I gained weight, I had 3 surgeries for soft ball sized cyst (because your at a higher risk of having those when tide) and there painful! I was fine the first 4yrs of not wanting children I said NOPE no more I'm Done!! Things changed about the 5th year. I would cry myself to sleep knowing I couldn't have more children seeing a pregnant woman🤰was devastating to me and so depressed.. I never had any issues with my periods, no cyst nothing b4 having them tide.. My clips fell off and they to this day have no clue nor the doctors know we're they went to!..recovery isn't to bad for the first couple days but that's not the issue.. You will have problems eventually trust me! I couldn't be happier having my reversal done in 2012! I've had no more issues or problems.. We payed 6,400$ to have them reversed.. Please think about this