So, my SO kept asking what’s wrong and I told him about the not having a job situation and explained…
So, my SO kept asking what’s wrong and I told him about the not having a job situation and explained how I am pretty much screwed at this point. All he can say is I’ll try to help you.. we’re moving in together to our own place in the next few weeks and having a baby together. Shouldn’t it be more of an I GOT YOU, because we’re a fucking team. Yeah he may fill my car up twice a month but as far as clothes, groceries, and any other necessity it’s all on me. And he bitches about any dime he spends already so I’m not feeling any better.
Alexis Hatcher·
i havent been able to work for over 2 months and my boyfriend didnt mind he actually doesnt want me to go back to work til after the baby . he pays all the bills (we have a apt )make sure he buys me food 3 or 4 times a day , pampers me ( hair , nails , etc ) and honestly ive never been more grateful ! tell him to step up your carrying the child take it easy dont stress hun
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (20 нед.)
@alexishatcher16, I could cry reading that. I don’t even get food bought for me unless we just happen to be out which isn’t often. Been staying at his parents with him the majority of the time with my son and he doesn’t even buy groceries. Of course I don’t want to sit here and cook shit using all of her stuff even though she probably wouldn’t care. He just thinks eating a pb&j all day everyday would suffice. By the time I get ready to leave the house I am so hungry I am shaking and feel like I am going to pass out, then I have to cry after taking money from my savings to buy food and then I usually half it with my son. Although I’d buy him whatever before I ate, but still. This gives me a migraine. I sat in the car for almost 2 hours crying after I got the rejection from that job I applied for and realized how shitty of a situation I am in right now.
Alexis Hatcher·
@babyjjsmommy, im sorry to hear that i really wish he would treat u better at a time like this . a fetus doesnt want to eat sandwhiches all day everyday ! we have out own personal cravings that should be satisfied !! and u shouldnt be dippin in your savings !! he got you pregnant so he should step up to the plate !
Jess🌹♥️·
how long y'all been together? 🤔
babyjjsmommy·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (20 нед.)
@jaxons.mom09, since April
Jess🌹♥️·
@babyjjsmommy oh. okay.
Breana Ayers·
He should definitely be by your side and more supportive than he is. You shouldn’t have to feel like that. I hope something comes through for you soon.
Sindy·
Мама двоих (младенец)
All men are like that. Mine still is. We've been married for 3 years. Don't listen to him. Ignore it. As long as he pays