I feel so freaking annoyed. I’m probably over reacting with my emotions but why is it that every…

I feel so freaking annoyed. I’m probably over reacting with my emotions but why is it that every time I want to do something special w my 5 year old he never wants to or gets happy but rather is more like a job or drag. but if his dad asked him he would jump up and break out with excitement?? Smh 😩😩😩