Are your babes planned? Did you ever question if you were doing the right thing??! 🤔

Not this one and all the time but hey I’m going with it.. babies are blessings

None of mine were planned but my first 2 were definitely wanted. I'm questioning myself on this last one. I know all babies are blessings but I just never expected 3. Especially not financially or mentally I'm not prepared.

Did anyone of you ladies have PPD? Or hard recoveries that changed the decision?

I have severe depression and anxiety anyway. Pregnancy and after always makes it worse. My last definitely took a severe toll on me which is why I decided no more and got my tubes tied.

I always feel like I missed out on planning my pregnancies...I was told when I was very young that my body would never be able to carry a baby to term because I was born with a hormone deficiency. I was later in an abusive relationship, where there was concern that the damage done to my uterus (by being punched repeatedly in the abdomen) would make it difficult if not impossible to conceive. Both my kids were accidents.

None of my kids were planned but honestly I wouldn't change a damn thing.

@raquely are you scared to have it again? Did you take medication?

@shayla.galloway I wasn't asking if anyone regretted their children... Mothers have an obvious answer... I was trying to find out if planning made a difference on anyone's decision or recovery...

@twice_blessed PPD was very hard on me... And that's one of the main reasons I think I'm changing my mind about planning. It was so hard on my family and it was fair to my husband and first... Now there will be another... I just don't know if I can do it... I've been thinking about going for a tubal instead...

@itsacin.le-vel.com Its up to you. Like I said I completely understand. That was a big reason I was getting my tubes tied and when I found out I was pregnant again I had such a crazy mix of emotions. I asked why over and over and how am I going to do this again. I even considered adopting it to one of my family members who wants another. But I guess in the end I accepted it. I know its going to be tough but I kinda did want another boy I just decided I couldn't handle it. I guess the lord works in mysterious ways and I'll be hanging on for the ride and hoping for the best.

Both of mine were planned. I didnt feel that way with my first, but I have definitely felt like that with my second. The closer I get to my due date though, the more excited I am.