Lol legit can't stop my flow when I'm peeing.
Kegals are so hard to do.
That catheter screwed me up.
I'm still discharging shit from after labor.
I feel so gross down there still lol.
Can't wait to shave when doctor says I'm all healed and such.
@mikailahandbaby basically like the same thing.. came out unresponsive due to the miconium and cord wrapped around his neck. Nicu immediately took him and made sure his brain wasn't bleeding .. he was taken because of all that hypoxic ischomic event and to rule out sepsis. Just so much.. it was so scary.. he was sunny side up so it was a long and hard delivery and he was stuck in me as well..
@mommy2bean, I almost lost my son as well! He stopped breathing and turned grey, they said. He had to be brought back due to too much amnotic fluid intake and have a tube down his throat for a few minutes to suck it out :/ Can I ask what happened with your son?
I'm just grateful I got my son after a few years of them saying I couldnt have any! Ive always loved kids, so it was a huge heartbreak even though I'm only 19 right now. And i think we're vice versa, lol. You stopped bleeding after a week, but still hurt... i stopped hurting after about a week, but am still bleeding.
Just throwing out there that it is extremely common to have a harder time with the after birth with each sequential child. My first time was a breeze besides my having more stitches that time. For my second one, I bled longer and was in a lot more pain as I dealt with the afterbirth contractions.
@mikailahandbaby oh gosh that sucks but also kind of rocks. Cysts on ovaries freaking suck. But yeah clearly someone needs to go back to med school lol! Wow lucky lol.. I was basically torn open by forceps so makes sense why it took 40 minutes. And hmm weird.. yeah my blood lasted like 1 week I think. But the discharge and urethra weirdness since I delivered... I'm just glad it's not super painful anymore and that I can sit lol and walk.
@mommy2bean, I have severe PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome), which is also why I was told i couldnt have kids along with why i dont have periods. Clearly, someone was wrong! Lmao. And oh goodness, I was only stitched up for about five minutes and got twelve stitches. And no, I dont hurt at all anymore really. Its just the blood that is annoying. They said it'd probably last a few weeks, and it's been 3+ weeks.
@mikailahandbaby okay does your urethra still hurt lol sorry and I don't have blood.
How do you not have periods?! I'd have periods but they'd last 1 or 2 days only. I asked my doctor and he just told me I had a 2nd degree tear and it was inside my vagina towards the bottom but no where near my anus/taint. It took him 40 minutes to sew me. I felt the needle going in and him tugging it slightly when he'd pull through and up.. lol he said it was more of just a continuous stitch.. lol basically sewing my petals back on my flower lolol
@mommy2bean, I still have the discharge, yes! And some blood. Which, for someone who doesnt have periods is seriously disturbing! 😭 Lol. Can I ask, how many stitches did you have to have?
@mikailahandbaby I'm too scared to even feel around bahah! Is it hard for you to stop peeing midpee??? And do you have a tannish discharge? Sorry tmi. But yeah for real xD my vag is still in pain but I had a tramautic labor lol