A lot happened earlier this week so I’m a little late on venting about it. So his grandparents…
A lot happened earlier this week so I’m a little late on venting about it. So his grandparents insist that every year that they host Christmas that one night they get to invite what seams like half of the community over for a wine and cheese event. For those people who like wine (I personally don’t) about half of the wine is drinkable. They cheese is the fancy cheese that about 1 in every 5 is bearable. And this is obvious when you see the leftovers. One of the distant relatives that I met last year sat by me and tried some small talk. That was fine until someone else commented that I was pregnant (I am huge and it all is in my front instead of all around). Now mind you that I had a plain black dress jacket (I don’t know fashion but it is a zipper free jacket to help stay warm but look nice) and I had it wrapped around me so I looked bulky. He responds with, I wasn’t sure but a guy is never supposed to assume. I’m sure he was trying to be nice about everything from the moment he sat down to when he stood back up but it really made me feel like everyone just sees me as plain fat instead of pregnant. With all comments I’ve received from this month about my size, I’m about to turn pregnant bitch just to keep my sanity. And keep in mind that I’ve only gain 16 pounds and about 15.5 of that is all in my front.
MamaKnowsBest·
Omg, i know what you mean dear. I too feel the same way. I'm supposed to go puck up my free baby gift bag from Target but i've been hesitating just because i dont want them to lool at me like "Is she really pregnant or is she just tryong to get this free baggy?"... It sounds lile you atleast show, i swear i just get fluffier all over. My first baby when going into the emergency room for labor the nurses literally asked agaun "She's pregnant?". It was so embarrassing. I know how you feel but dont let it get to you. Habe a happy pregnancy!