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Janessa Ganuelas
janessamiraclemommy
Janessa Ganuelas
Ok ladies I need to vent. I felt this was the safe and right place to do it. This happened earlier or few hours ago. I was at my mom's. I went to go to check to see if my phone was charge. But before I could I heard loud noise. I went into the living room and the Xmas tree was on top of my daughter. My mom said you can't let your daughter whatever she wants all the time. And I told her I don't. And I don't why you think I let her do whatever she wants. Then I was about to help the Christmas tree off my daughter when my older sister started sarcastically laughing. Not a really laugh but really saying ha ha ha but in a sarcastic way. I looked at her and said that's not funny. And she did the fake laugh again. I grabbed my daughter I said next time the Christmas tree falls on your daughter I'll be sure and laugh. Then she does the laugh a 3rd time. I called her dumb bitch. Of course she laughs again. I think you're jealous of my daughter because she actually has a dad that cares about her. She didn't say anything for a second. And then said actually my daughter...I didn't let her finish I walked away. My mom told me to just to go into the other room. After awhile I cried to my mom about it. I know I shouldn't have said some things I said to her but I have every right to be angry, upset, and sad. My daughter was hurt and her own blood, her so called auntie was laughing at her. And she didn't start laughing until I got into the living room. I have been nothing but nice to her daughter since she was born. But she won't give my daughter the same treatment. She makes fun of her and is mean to every chance she gets. The words my daughter can say already, my sister mocks her. And she is literally mean all the time. My daughter doesn't deserve this kind of treatment. I feel the message is very clear and I shouldn't go around my sister anymore. But it makes me sad because she still lives with my mom. And my loves my daughter. My daughter loves being around cousin. I just hate the way she gets treated by her so called auntie. And it makes me even more sad because my boyfriend's sisters want nothing to do with her. And my own sisters ignore her and when they don't ignore her they're mean to her. Like seriously how tf does a full grown woman a 26 year old get pleasure in being mean to a 1 year old who can't even defend herself. She was so nice to her when she was a newborn. But she got older she started being mean to her. I got treated like shit from her when I was in high school. I don't know I think she likes being mean to other ppl. But apparently she never does anything and is always innocent. Even though she's the one starts arguments most of the time. I'll admit I started this argument I had a right to start this argument this though. Her daughter's birthday is on the 2nd which I won't be attending because of what happened today. I helped her a lot too I gave my daughter's clothes she couldn't fit anymore, bottles, nipples, caps and baby bath. I didn't even get a thank you once. She will not be allowed my daughter anymore. A grown ass woman shouldn't pick on a 1 year old, her own niece. I think it's absolute bullshit and she will not be allowed in my house anymore. I just discussed with my boyfriend she's not allowed over at my mom's. My sister ruined my daughter seeing my mom at her place. My mom still allowed to see her over here. I wouldn't stop my mom from seeing her. But my sister on the other hand is not. Until she changes her attitude and the way she treats my daughter. Because she shouldn't have to be treated that way at all. And she knows she wouldn't want her daughter treated that way. Sorry for the long vent. But that's what needed to be said. Thanks to all who read to the end.
26.12.2017
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janessamiraclemommy
janessamiraclemommy
@blujul8 Yeah it hurts me just because my own sister is mean to my daughter. Then I called too sensitive and that need to toughen up. But at the same time Idc because if family treats you that way they're not really family. 💯 Family isn't always blood. My man's family treats better than she ever has.
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blujul8
blujul8
@janessamiraclemommy I'm sry it's tough but u gotta do wats best for u and ur baby
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janessamiraclemommy
janessamiraclemommy
She used my mom's account. I sent a message that was meant for my mom. And she read it. That was her reply.
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janessamiraclemommy
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janessamiraclemommy
janessamiraclemommy
@blujul8 Yes. My daughter is allowed her anymore. And she's allowed at my place either. She sent me a whole bunch of messages saying that she doesn't care that she's not allowed my daughter anymore. That I'm too sensitive.
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blujul8
blujul8
@janessamiraclemommy I'm glad ur baby is ok, aw I'm sry I understand u sometimes even though u love ur fam they can b toxic and continually hurt u. Best of luck and wishes😊
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janessamiraclemommy
janessamiraclemommy
@blujul8 I've literally done that many times before. My mom even talked to her about it. But she won't change. So I think it's time to keep my daughter away from until she matures and treats my daughter with respect. Thanks she's okay now :)
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I wouldn't let her around my child either. I would tell her if she wants to be a pathetic bully who has to pick on a 1 year old to feel good about herself then she doesn't need to be around your child until she matures and acts her age.
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blujul8
blujul8
Im sorry ur going through this, it's good to vent to not keep resentment and things bottled up maybe it b healthy to have a take with ur sister one on one without anger to tell her what I've been feeling and I'm sure u love her wish she wouldn't act like that.i hope u feel better and don't rush too fast into getting away from ur family, wait it out but try to work things out. I'm sry ur feelings where hurt and I hope ur little one is ok many blessings.😉
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