Okay wtf is my husband going and talking to my grandpa about me not giving him attention like first…

Okay wtf is my husband going and talking to my grandpa about me not giving him attention like first of all ewww and second like really dude you get my attention when the kids are asleep but your ass doesn't come when I tell you they are asleep and you wait till like 2 am when I am passed out and you know damn well your daughter get up every night at that Time so it's not my fault you ass does other things and miss on it and stop going to my family and telling them our business!!!!