mommyofanamarie
Alexa Guzman
So I was scrolling down my newsfeed of facebook and in a group I'm in a read of a girl giving her opinion of her being pregnant by her boyfriend and wanting to abort the child but her boyfriend wants to keep it and she explained to him her decision and he said he will leave her if she did that she doesn't know what to do cause she doesn't want it she plans on going to planned parenthood and do it their or her OB and explaining the situation even though her boyfriend goes to the appointments and is supportive...that made my heart sink so much she's around my age and to.hear someone say that hurts I gave her my opinion on adoption but not straight to the system but meeting a couple wanting a child and seeing if their fit for the baby it just hurt me to hear someone say that what's your opinion on this ladies
22.12.2017
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mommyof3kiddos
I personally would not have an abortion but we dont know everyone's circumstances or what they are truly going through only they do. It sounds like she has support from the baby's father unless there's a really bad legitimate reason then she should be free to do what she thinks is best. We personally don't know their relationship or what's going through her mind. She could also just be afraid and doesnt know how to cope with having a baby...
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jessicavillanueva92
It's her body and her baby too but again it's also his baby. :( makes for a hard situation and decision.
When we found out we honestly thought about it. My brith control failed suddenly after 5 years of no issues. We didn't have enough saved for the amount we wanted for down payment on a house, living with parents, and no savings for a kid and hospital. :( my husband told me it was up to me, he didn't want to say one way or the other as he saw it as my decision ultimately but would support me no matter what. We decided to keep going and everything is starting to fall into place for us and our insurance is amazing for prenatal and delivery care apparently. Lol we'll figure it out.
When we found out we honestly thought about it. My brith control failed suddenly after 5 years of no issues. We didn't have enough saved for the amount we wanted for down payment on a house, living with parents, and no savings for a kid and hospital. :( my husband told me it was up to me, he didn't want to say one way or the other as he saw it as my decision ultimately but would support me no matter what. We decided to keep going and everything is starting to fall into place for us and our insurance is amazing for prenatal and delivery care apparently. Lol we'll figure it out.
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_texas_mom_
Personally, I am pro life. I do truly hope she chooses life. Rather it be adoption, her keeping the child, or maybe giving full custody to the father. Once babies are in people’s life’s their whole world changes.
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blujul8
@mrsbustamante I'm anti abortion to and I have 3 kiddos and I lost 2 one at 21 weeks and after going through that though I know motherhood is scary I just feel awful for the babies u know yup there are more options🙌
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mommyofanamarie
@blujul8 she's free to do as she pleases I just feel she should explore options personally I'm anti abortion but I understand if she doesn't want it just why not see what else u can do besides abortion
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mommyofanamarie
@kambam she asked for options i gave her mine i support her decision even though it aches my heart these are things done everyday due to current situations and events in people's lives I hope everything goes well for her
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blujul8
@kambam true that's what I thought she's prob scare and going through something
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blujul8
If u say she's free to do what she wants ppl get offended for the abortion part, if u say the bf has the right ppl get offended saying women's rights, who cares what I think😂but honestly as an observer I don't know y she feels this way but truly a lot of ppl don't have a person who loves and support them and goes to the doctors visits with them and wish they had that. And I feel for that baby in her womb☹️ but in the end we can't do anything it's all her decision
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kambam
It's a sad story but likely anything you or anyone else says will not matter. We don't know her situation. She's probably scared either way! All we can do is support other women in their decisions and land and ear to listen.
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mommyofanamarie
@badadvicemom I understand her in her opinion but shouldn't she consider all her options
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mommyofanamarie
@badadvicemom well she isn't really giving him that option what I've seen but I think maybe she should talk to him about it the way she did with the abortion
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tayler
If you would like my opinion I can message you, but I do not wanna post it in the comments. Lol, only because I don't want to offend anyone!
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