My SO doesn't do shit for our DD. His excuse is that he works. Whenever he does interact with her he just points out things that make me feel like a terrible mother. I.e. I don't have a way to feed you, I know you hungry... Mommy is right there! (Mind you I feed her plenty, most of the time I've just finished nursing minutes before his interaction. Shes accustomed to the cradle position being used for nursing, and that's the main way he holds her) Sometimes when I want to take a shower or am in the bathroom taking a boop, he stands DIRECTLY IN FRONT OF THE BATHROOM DOOR WITH THE BABY AND SINGS TO HER ASKING FOR ME!? I can't have time to myself or feel terrible about it when I do get that chance. Sometimes I feel like he's going to be like my father and be nothing more than a financial support. I literally have to ask him to do shit for our daughter otherwise he'll just sit there and let her cry or wait for me to deal with her issue.