Just learned my BIL and SIL are getting divorced. I mean I always kind of questioned how long they…

Just learned my BIL and SIL are getting divorced. I mean I always kind of questioned how long they would last...they have been married just a few months longer than my husband and I but they only knew each other 2-3 months before that (she got pregnant). I love her but I feel bad for my husbands brother. They have a son who will be 4 in February..just 2 months older than my daughter. I can’t imagine what it must be like to share their child...she’s already moved out but it was a mutual decision so I guess that’s as good as it can be. I can’t fathom not having my kids with me. It’s hard even when they are with a sitter. Divorce is honestly my greatest fear and I can’t believe it’s happening in our family ☹️