Anybody out there significant other doesn't have a job and doesn't seem like he's interested in…
Anybody out there significant other doesn't have a job and doesn't seem like he's interested in finding a job??? If so, what do you do about it. Our baby boy is due in may and it's like, hello you need a job money isn't just going to grow on a tree. 😫
Serena·
My husband is that way. He hasn't held a steady job almost all year. I keep hoping he finds one, but nothing seems to stick.
kani·
Мама дочки-младенца
Would ask him so what are his plans for bringing in income for this child
Sheri A·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)
@mommabearoftwo, agreed. And it's stressful we have an almost 6 yr old and one on the way.... and wanna look for a house. But it's not going to work if he doesn't have a job.
Serena·
@sheribabyy we just had our newest addition two weeks ago. He doest show any motivation sometimes, and just keeps saying at tax time things will get better. He wants to move, and we have to get a car since we lost all of that this year.
Sheri A·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)
@mommabearoftwo, I feel like his should be an enjoyable time for me but he makes it miserable. And it's it's like the whole pregnancy I feel alone depressed and have anxiety making it not enjoyable 😫 thought things would be better the second time around
Hannah Truhlar ·
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My boyfriend was like that...I was working 7 days a week at 4 months pregnant and would always be exhausted. He finally said that was enough, he was going to provide and he wanted me to stop working so much. He got three jobs and I work less now...I think you just need to help him really see that the baby is coming and he should help provide...guys are oblivious...apparently even when it's a huge deal like A FREAKING BABY!!! 😂
Senya·
Same boat 😥 He has a concussion and I don't want to stress him right now. I'm just gonna look for a job and hope that someone hires me.
Serena·
@sheribabyy I felt the same way through mine. If you ever need someone to talk to, you can message me. Everything you're feeling, I felt during my pregnancy.
Sheri A·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (21 нед.)
@truhlar1717, how else do I get him to realize. Without having him tell me I'm bitching
Hannah Truhlar ·
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@sheribabyy my bf says "get a fucking job, hoe!" To your bf 😂 but in all seriousness...I think it might help to make a bidget. Things you need to buy for baby and how much you will need to save to cover bills while ur on maternity leave...figure out how much you would need weekly to be set by the time baby comes and then present that to him and ask for his help...