Why is it when I need something my husband can take his sweet time but when he needs something the…

Why is it when I need something my husband can take his sweet time but when he needs something the world is going to end and I have to do it right away?? Ugh he make me mad most of the time lol he need to hurry and send me the pic of my damn card he keep taking. So I can book our daughter birthday party. Because God know I will forget what the hell is am doing and won't get it done.