My husband is giving me crap about the house not being organized and maintained at it's usual level... As if I've just been slacking off instead of recovering from surgery and taking care 3 kids.
@joanna.davis, no that’s bullshit and it wouldn’t fly in my house. My husband would be doing everything he could to make sure I was ok and I wouldn’t have to lift a finger until I was healed. That’s how it should be.
@damn.it.red yeah, I had the baby via c-section. I've already been doing way more than I'm supposed to. It's like he expects me to be functioning normally when I get home from the hospital though.
@blessedmama09 he doesn't even believe the doctor 🙄 He thought I was just being dramatic about tender breasts when I first got pregnant with him, and still didn't believe that it's a real thing after I had the doctor explain it to him.
If he hasn't personally experienced something, it's as if it doesn't exist.
@damn.it.red mostly because I have my hands too full with the kids, but I also can't carry heavy laundry baskets up the stairs yet. I can barely even walk today from back pain.
@joanna.davis, that’s not good! Take him with you to the doctors if you can do he knows! Have the doctor fill out a form that you can’t do normal activities for 6 weeks.
@damn.it.red @ecahanes This morning it was about a sweater he couldn't find, "It's like our closet is useless now. I don't know why none of my stuff has been in there, but it hasn't been for weeks."
Mind you the laundry has been washed, dried, AND folded, I just haven't put his crap up for him.