I feel so bad for Hadleigh & Owen... None of our "family" have honestly tried to have a relationship…

I feel so bad for Hadleigh & Owen... None of our "family" have honestly tried to have a relationship with them... No Christmas gifts, no birthday gifts, no calls, no texts... The only person whos made an effort is my husbands grandmother who sends us clothes & diapers... I understand we live 1000 miles away but we've made that trip at least 7 times & owens met his grandmom like once & my dad invited us to his house once before deciding he didnt want anything to do with us... Makes my heart hurt.